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"A family based in North London is looking for an remarkable and experienced tutor to assist their smallest child on his early path to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this post, you might readily overlook the wording "beginning" as mere an expression.

But, it might be the most important part of this unique employment listing, as it aims to find a teacher for a infant.

Hundreds of responses have already been sent in since the unnamed family advertised their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the listing has received interest across the press, with numerous questioning why?

Progressive Approach

The CEO, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, stated that despite initial scepticism, he viewed the plan "visionary", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he mentioned they recognized the unusual character of their demand, and how early in age their son is.

Nevertheless, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their older child was five, and by that age "cultural conditioning had already set in".

But what did the family mean by "cultural leaning"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert responded. "How you eat, how you speak".

He said the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural habits. The family informed Adam they hoped to prevent history to repeat itself with their younger child.

The strategy: To hire a British tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to shape the baby from the very start.

Subtle Influence

"A great deal of the education at the start here is rather osmotic," stated the expert.

It's by means of this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to impart.

Adam explained the tutor must be somebody who attended "prestigious academies – the same kinds of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor just has to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Money No Object

The family told him the chosen tutor should preferably also have familiarity of or interest in riding, skiing, the arts and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a diverse set of passions.

More than that though, he said the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an tool by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son become a "British gentleman" will bring about success and create opportunities.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he notes.

Yet, notwithstanding all this guidance in "Britishness", could the child pick up alleged cultural influence from the globally influenced family he is raised by anyway?

"Certainly", said he. "The parents realize this might not succeed, but they've simply adopted the view of, 'why not attempt it and we should start as soon as we can', because the expense of it is not relevant," he said.

Impractical

There are some in the tutoring industry who share these concerns.

Another CEO, chief executive of Blue Education, who supplies private tutors, stated that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

The expert wrote that he had relocated from China to the Britain at the period of seven, and had been raised experiencing and practicing both cultures. He went on to study at a prestigious UK institution.

"The idea that a single person can function as a living vessel of UK identity, someone who can in some way transfer the qualities of a British gentleman to a one-year-old child, appears optimistic and unrealistic," he wrote.

"In my experience, engaging a distinctly English tutor from babyhood will does not necessarily create the outcome they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to experience many of the experiences they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, self-identity cannot be dictated from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Naturally, English culture is something the expert thinks can be instructed – and commercialized.

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